There is light, hold hands!

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There is light, hold hands!
-“Will my daughters prevent you?” Natalya smiles, escorting me to the room. I can see how the little Theodosia laughs at the pope’s lap, while the oldest Sophia is sitting with concentration towards her plate.
– Hi! – I smile broadly.
And then Sophia reaches out to me with her hand and gets to know me with thin fingers. TO THE TOUCH!
– Mom, and who has come to us? She says quietly, and I can see her diffused, strained eyes. Unseeing…
I’m getting cold and trying to shake my fingers quickly running down my arm.
“My name is Aunt Julia …” I say in confusion.
– Hello, my good! – Sophia exhales very much in an adult way.
Then I have something stuck in my throat.
– That’s why we are special moms! – Mother Natalia calmly speaks, and I try to somehow somehow assemble myself, collapsed on slices, and to recollect a theme of conversation … Anybody from us is not insured from such turns of destiny. Today you dream of a big stage, and tomorrow you have an inferior child born, and you are forced to abandon your plans and go into yourself, closing in a limited space and obeying the regime of the day and treating the child.
Mothers of children with disabilities, underage mothers, refugee mothers, mothers with many children and adopted mothers – all of them, most often, remain face to face with their difficulties. And they have a desire to quickly go through all these commissions and agreements, knocking out benefits and forget it all, like a terrible dream! “All rehabilitation programs in our state are aimed only at the” special “child, but not at my mother! “Says Natalya Shamporova, head of the” Special Mom “movement, one of the nominees for the” CITY PERSON “award. – In our maternity homes in the department of premature babies is not as such a psychologist. I’m not talking about legal support, because parents do not know many subtleties.
That’s why our organization was created – to support such families and such mothers, and it’s FREE.
We, for our part, try to say to such women: “Look, there is light at the end of the tunnel! Give us a hand, we will help! ”
The village for me is generally a separate topic. In February, the first books we collected were taken to the village! The library at the village club of the village of Sizewo Zavyalovskogo district was replenished thanks to a total effort of 75 books. Many of our wards have neither the Internet nor TV, so books are their last hope …
And if, reader, you have good books and magazines for parents – you can join the action # AgroMania | Help the village with the book | Izhevsk. Udmurtia.
We generally interact closely with the village, helping with legal issues. After all, it’s no secret that villagers do not know many subtleties and therefore are afraid to treat their needs in any instances. Or the second option: they write right into the waiting room of Putin, bypassing the local government, which can help. “

 

HOW YOU CAN HELP
Of course, the association would like to find its premises, but this is not a legal organization, it is just a public initiative, therefore, considerable investments will be required.
There are also plans to print booklets with all the necessary information so that it goes to cities and regions of the republic.
And special mothers really need volunteers with medical education, plus psychologists to work with the older generation.

… These women are endless in their desire to help others. Therefore, for our part, too, it is worth supporting them!
The main thing is that the “Special Moms” team understands that no effort will be wasted if there are people who say with tears in their eyes: “Thank you !!”

Julia Mikhaleva
From Gorod magazine

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